Sunday, August 5, 2012

Friends… The Extended family…



Friends .. they are  not our blood relations but they are the one whom we choose on our own and  I must say, sometimes they become so close that we feel they are the  part of our family something like The  Extended family. As  our family is always there with us in our good or bad times,  these friends make you feel the same by being together  in our ups and downs , sorrows and  happiness . These are the people who know our  deepest desire and  the most secret  things of our life, we can rely  on  them  blindly. Lucky are we who have these friends in our life to make it more beautiful.

Sometimes  we are comfortable sharing things with our friends,  which  at times we can’t with our family. Friends are the one know us all in and out, sometimes more than what we know about ourself. They make the happy moments happier and make the bad times a little less bad just by their presence, this is how the magic of friendships is .  Sometimes people say our happiness does not depend on others, I agree one need to first feel good  about  oneself  as a person than only one can be  happy with others.  But these friends in life comes as an added happiness, don’t you agree with me.

We  never know when we meet someone and that one meeting turns into a strong bond for life time. Sometimes its said people of same kind go along well, yes true to some extent  but I can’t  agree much on that. I have friends who are in no ways  like me still we share a  good bond, its just that  something in common which brings us  together and close, something which cannot be described. Some friends are like, you need not say a word still they know it all , how much you try to hide, to some you don’t need to give any explanation for  everything you did  whether good or bad coz  they understand and accept you in every phase and with all your  good and bad things. The friendship bond develops wherever you are, yes distance never matters how close or far  you are from them, they will surely make sure to be there for that bond they share with you.

Friends, some are like crazy hard to handle, some are too intelligent..ufff.., some are too smart that you feel  jealous at times :P,  some are  just hopeless,  some that don’t worry be happy types, some  are so optimistic that even in your darkest  moment they can show you  ray of hope,  some like tera kuch ni ho sakta types and  the list goes on. But  however they are, you just can’t be without  them and how pathetic  you can be or how crazy you are  but for them you are one of the best pals. They are the one who brings so many colors  to our life . Righty said “Har ek friend zaroori hota hai”..


This is for all those beautiful people in mah life, who have been always there for me in mah good and  bad,  when I smiled when I cried, when I was  happy when I broke down, for all those moments we  have shared together A little sweet , a little salty.. Thoda sweet, thoda sour.You are the people who accepted me as I am and somewhere there is a lot of thing from you all  that makes me as a person what  I am today  and yes  I must admit there would be something missing in life without you all.   “Thank You” is the not the word which I  can repay for our friendship that we share, but  yes I will surely try to be the one to be there for you whenever  you need me.

So to all mah best  pals.. Cheers  to our friendship and wish this bond goes a long way and lasts forever,  no matter how far we go in our life..

Lots of Love...Keep Smiling :-)



Monday, May 21, 2012

My emotional attachment with the ‘Greeting Cards’


  
I still remember my school days when i used to be so excited on  those special occasions like  birthdays, new year, Christmas eve, friendship day. The excitement was for that one day off from school, from  the normal routine and to get connected with friends and family around. And  in those celebration one thing that  was so common was the ‘Greeting Cards’ 

 
Oh  yes those colorful cards, with sweet messages over it, in different sizes for every occasion and for all.. ohh I love them so much.  It was so good to give one to our friends, family members , teachers,  beloved ones  and to receive one from them, it gave so much happiness (yes as it is said happiness lies in those small little  things in life).  It has so much of emotions attached.  I still have those cards with me which I got in those days , it holds so much of sweet memories which does not fade away  with time and  these are really precious to me as  it’s the expression of love, emotion, feeling and sentiments. 

But it was a old story though,  now in the recent years with the electronic -cards coming in, greeting cards has lost its charm to some extent,  where people have no time to buy them, write some message and then post it. Life has got so busy that we have changed our way of maintaining relationship, just a text or an email thats what we can do for our loved one  rather writing our feelings on those cards. But  still for me these greetings cards can never be replaced with the e-cards.

 I don’t remember when did i last receive the one in the recent years but today I was just surprised to get one from mah friend who has no idea that how much I love them (and yes that friendship card has mah favorite colors on it, blue n yellow),  it really feels  good and  takes me back in mah childhood  days with those  sweet memories.

I must say these cards have not lost its essence for me, I have an emotional  attachment with these cards bcoz for me its not just the piece of paper but  has the sentiments of the person attached to it whose giving it  and I m happy to get one more added as mah sweet memory  and yes they always make me smile :-)

Dear Friend,
You have made me Rich
With the comforting Advices
With many Priceless Memories
With the Prayer you made
With Soothing words you said
With the Promises you made& Fulfilled
With the “Friendship Wall” that you built

(Quote from the card I received today..)

Sunday, May 20, 2012

..Sometimes its too late to go back!!


He  came in her life like the  first rain
He made everything  so beautiful  around
He  brought  new hopes  and colors to her  life
He  made her  feel so special and beautiful
He loved her  like no one ever did before
He understood her without a word spoken

He knew how  to deal with her insanity
He  knew what her  silence meant
He knew  when she  felt like crying
He  knew how to make her  smile again
He made his world around her
He made her,  his life,  his soul everything

But  she  broke all his dreams  and gave all the pain
She left him  alone with the  broken heart
She was  scared of  that love thing
She was too scared to accept dt love was all for her
She did not have the heart or strength to say
Or may be  it was destined for her that way

May be  she was not that  lucky to deserve him
N  now she knows sometimes its too late to go back!!




Thursday, April 12, 2012

A beautiful song from “Before Sunset”



 
What if you had a second chance with the one that got away??


Let me sing you a waltz
Out of nowhere, out of my thoughts
Let me sing you a waltz
About this one night stand

You were for me that night
Everything I always dreamt of in life
But now you’re gone
You are far gone
All the way to your island of rain

It was for you just a one night thing
But you were much more to me
Just so you know

I hear rumors about you
About all the bad things you do
But when we were together alone
You didn’t seem like a player at all

I don’t care what they say                 
I know what you meant for me that day
I just wanted another try
I just wanted another night
Even if it doesn’t seem quite right
You meant for me much more
Than anyone I’ve met before

One single night with you mah dear
Is worth a thousand with anybody
I have no bitterness, my sweet
I’ll never forget this one night thing
Even tomorrow, in other arms
My heart will stay yours until I die

Let me sing you a waltz
Out of nowhere, out of my blues
Let me sing you a waltz
About this lovely one night stand

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Can we decide whom we fall in love with ??



Love..
 Can we decide whom we fall in love with ?
We can’t go in search of love.. It won’t last
It has to happen on its own ..
It has to hit us.. make us spin topsy turvy!
It has to be with us.. Always
That’s true Love..It happened to me..
Actually I didn’t choose.. That love hit me!

Love..
Is it that easy to find someone?
Can’t fall in love just because you ask me to
It has to happen on its own..
It has to hit us.. make us spin topsy turvy!
Just like it did.. wen I met YOU! .. when you met ME!!
Whatever happened between us.. It was Beautiful
I like this pain.. Thank YOU for Everything..



Wednesday, January 25, 2012

There is only one “Rahul Dravid”..




Some things in life just gives us immense pleasure and the happiness of which can be seen in our eyes, with that small little things we have in our life. And sum times gifting yourself with the things that you always wanted to have is a such a  great feeling. It can be anything and so this new year, I just got a book for myself which I always wanted to read since the time it has come but couldn’t, may be I was not into reading so much those days  (even I am not much into it now) So finally here it is with me the book  “Rahul Dravid- A Biography”  and I swear reading every bit of it makes me feel happy coz its not just the  book for me but about sum one who has always inspired me, the  man of dignity,  his way of living. What do I say about this great Indian Cricketer when every one of us knows about him so well, the wall of Indian cricket.

He has something in his persona which makes him different from all, his dashing personality,  his calm nature, his balanced speech, his firm determination  and yes his “never say never again” attitude. 

I have always watched Rahul (mah hero) playing since mah childhood (or say from the time he started to play in Indian Cricket Team) and the craziness for him still continues. This sport fascinates me like nothing else and yes Rahul has always been  the reason. Reading through the book, makes me know more about  his personal side, his childhood, school days , friends , teachers and  so many people around  him.

He is the complete man (the dependable) not just on the field but off the field too who always knows how to be oneself.  Its just such a pleasure watching him out there on the ground and making his presence felt.

Many people have their own views about him.. but yes that’s how it is..
“With success comes the criticism”

I still remember the video from Mtv Bakra-  A  girl randomly proposing Rahul. I have always wished to meet Rahul (n yes to propose him—mah crazy desire),  it will be just like a dream come true meeting mah childhood crush..

And I strongly believe there is only one “ Rahul Dravid”  The Classy Batsman.. The wall.. The Dependable.. n yes one and only mah sweetheart “Jammy”

Wish him all the great things, success and  happiness in life..  Love U " Rahul" Muaahh...:-)