Friends… The Extended family…

Friends .. they are  not our blood relations but they are the one whom we choose on our own and  I must say, sometimes they become so close that we feel they are the  part of our family something like The  Extended family. As  our family is always there with us in our good or bad times,  these friends make you feel the same by being together  in our ups and downs , sorrows and  happiness . These are the people who know our  deepest desire and  the most secret  things of our life, we can rely  on  them  blindly. Lucky are we who have these friends in our life to make it more beautiful.

Sometimes  we are comfortable sharing things with our friends,  which  at times we can’t with our family. Friends are the one know us all in and out, sometimes more than what we know about ourself. They make the happy moments happier and make the bad times a little less bad just by their presence, this is how the magic of friendships is .  Sometimes people say our happiness does not depend on others, I agree one need to first feel good  about  oneself  as a person than only one can be  happy with others.  But these friends in life comes as an added happiness, don’t you agree with me.

We  never know when we meet someone and that one meeting turns into a strong bond for life time. Sometimes its said people of same kind go along well, yes true to some extent  but I can’t  agree much on that. I have friends who are in no ways  like me still we share a  good bond, its just that  something in common which brings us  together and close, something which cannot be described. Some friends are like, you need not say a word still they know it all , how much you try to hide, to some you don’t need to give any explanation for  everything you did  whether good or bad coz  they understand and accept you in every phase and with all your  good and bad things. The friendship bond develops wherever you are, yes distance never matters how close or far  you are from them, they will surely make sure to be there for that bond they share with you.

Friends, some are like crazy hard to handle, some are too intelligent..ufff.., some are too smart that you feel  jealous at times :P,  some are  just hopeless,  some that don’t worry be happy types, some  are so optimistic that even in your darkest  moment they can show you  ray of hope,  some like tera kuch ni ho sakta types and  the list goes on. But  however they are, you just can’t be without  them and how pathetic  you can be or how crazy you are  but for them you are one of the best pals. They are the one who brings so many colors  to our life . Righty said “Har ek friend zaroori hota hai”..

This is for all those beautiful people in mah life, who have been always there for me in mah good and  bad,  when I smiled when I cried, when I was  happy when I broke down, for all those moments we  have shared together A little sweet , a little salty.. Thoda sweet, thoda sour.You are the people who accepted me as I am and somewhere there is a lot of thing from you all  that makes me as a person what  I am today  and yes  I must admit there would be something missing in life without you all.   “Thank You” is the not the word which I  can repay for our friendship that we share, but  yes I will surely try to be the one to be there for you whenever  you need me.

So to all mah best  pals.. Cheers  to our friendship and wish this bond goes a long way and lasts forever,  no matter how far we go in our life..

Lots of Love...Keep Smiling :-)

YES I LIVE IN FEAR~ AN OPEN LETTER TO PM Dr. ManMohan Singh | WHEN I WAS LOST IN ME

YES I LIVE IN FEAR~ AN OPEN LETTER TO PM Dr. ManMohan Singh | WHEN I WAS LOST IN ME

My emotional attachment with the ‘Greeting Cards’

  

I still remember my school days when i used to be so excited on  those special occasions like  birthdays, new year, Christmas eve, friendship day. The excitement was for that one day off from school, from  the normal routine and to get connected with friends and family around. And  in those celebration one thing that  was so common was the ‘Greeting Cards’ 

 

Oh  yes those colorful cards, with sweet messages over it, in different sizes for every occasion and for all.. ohh I love them so much.  It was so good to give one to our friends, family members , teachers,  beloved ones  and to receive one from them, it gave so much happiness (yes as it is said happiness lies in those small little  things in life).  It has so much of emotions attached.  I still have those cards with me which I got in those days , it holds so much of sweet memories which does not fade away  with time and  these are really precious to me as  it’s the expression of love, emotion, feeling and sentiments. 

But it was a old story though,  now in the recent years with the electronic -cards coming in, greeting cards has lost its charm to some extent,  where people have no time to buy them, write some message and then post it. Life has got so busy that we have changed our way of maintaining relationship, just a text or an email thats what we can do for our loved one  rather writing our feelings on those cards. But  still for me these greetings cards can never be replaced with the e-cards.

 I don’t remember when did i last receive the one in the recent years but today I was just surprised to get one from mah friend who has no idea that how much I love them (and yes that friendship card has mah favorite colors on it, blue n yellow),  it really feels  good and  takes me back in mah childhood  days with those  sweet memories.

I must say these cards have not lost its essence for me, I have an emotional  attachment with these cards bcoz for me its not just the piece of paper but  has the sentiments of the person attached to it whose giving it  and I m happy to get one more added as mah sweet memory  and yes they always make me smile :-)

Dear Friend,

You have made me Rich

With the comforting Advices

With many Priceless Memories

With the Prayer you made

With Soothing words you said

With the Promises you made& Fulfilled

With the “Friendship Wall” that you built

(Quote from the card I received today..)

..Sometimes its too late to go back!!

He  came in her life like the  first rain

He made everything  so beautiful  around

He  brought  new hopes  and colors to her  life

He  made her  feel so special and beautiful

He loved her  like no one ever did before

He understood her without a word spoken

He knew how  to deal with her insanity

He  knew what her  silence meant

He knew  when she  felt like crying

He  knew how to make her  smile again

He made his world around her

He made her,  his life,  his soul everything

But  she  broke all his dreams  and gave all the pain

She left him  alone with the  broken heart

She was  scared of  that love thing

She was too scared to accept dt love was all for her

She did not have the heart or strength to say

Or may be  it was destined for her that way

May be  she was not that  lucky to deserve him

N  now she knows sometimes its too late to go back!!

A beautiful song from “Before Sunset”

 
What if you had a second chance with the one that got away??


Let me sing you a waltz
Out of nowhere, out of my thoughts
Let me sing you a waltz
About this one night stand

You were for me that night
Everything I always dreamt of in life
But now you’re gone
You are far gone
All the way to your island of rain

It was for you just a one night thing
But you were much more to me
Just so you know

I hear rumors about you
About all the bad things you do
But when we were together alone
You didn’t seem like a player at all

I don’t care what they say                 
I know what you meant for me that day
I just wanted another try
I just wanted another night
Even if it doesn’t seem quite right
You meant for me much more
Than anyone I’ve met before

One single night with you mah dear
Is worth a thousand with anybody
I have no bitterness, my sweet
I’ll never forget this one night thing
Even tomorrow, in other arms
My heart will stay yours until I die

Let me sing you a waltz
Out of nowhere, out of my blues
Let me sing you a waltz
About this lovely one night stand

Can we decide whom we fall in love with ??

Love..
 Can we decide whom we fall in love with ?

We can’t go in search of love.. It won’t last

It has to happen on its own ..

It has to hit us.. make us spin topsy turvy!

It has to be with us.. Always

That’s true Love..It happened to me..

Actually I didn’t choose.. That love hit me!

Love..

Is it that easy to find someone?

Can’t fall in love just because you ask me to

It has to happen on its own..

It has to hit us.. make us spin topsy turvy!

Just like it did.. wen I met YOU! .. when you met ME!!

Whatever happened between us.. It was Beautiful

I like this pain.. Thank YOU for Everything..

There is only one “Rahul Dravid”..

Some things in life just gives us immense pleasure and the happiness of which can be seen in our eyes, with that small little things we have in our life. And sum times gifting yourself with the things that you always wanted to have is a such a  great feeling. It can be anything and so this new year, I just got a book for myself which I always wanted to read since the time it has come but couldn’t, may be I was not into reading so much those days  (even I am not much into it now) So finally here it is with me the book  “Rahul Dravid- A Biography”  and I swear reading every bit of it makes me feel happy coz its not just the  book for me but about sum one who has always inspired me, the  man of dignity,  his way of living. What do I say about this great Indian Cricketer when every one of us knows about him so well, the wall of Indian cricket.

He has something in his persona which makes him different from all, his dashing personality,  his calm nature, his balanced speech, his firm determination  and yes his “never say never again” attitude. 

I have always watched Rahul (mah hero) playing since mah childhood (or say from the time he started to play in Indian Cricket Team) and the craziness for him still continues. This sport fascinates me like nothing else and yes Rahul has always been  the reason. Reading through the book, makes me know more about  his personal side, his childhood, school days , friends , teachers and  so many people around  him.

He is the complete man (the dependable) not just on the field but off the field too who always knows how to be oneself.  Its just such a pleasure watching him out there on the ground and making his presence felt.

Many people have their own views about him.. but yes that’s how it is..

“With success comes the criticism”

I still remember the video from Mtv Bakra-  A  girl randomly proposing Rahul. I have always wished to meet Rahul (n yes to propose him—mah crazy desire),  it will be just like a dream come true meeting mah childhood crush..

And I strongly believe there is only one “ Rahul Dravid”  The Classy Batsman.. The wall.. The Dependable.. n yes one and only mah sweetheart “Jammy”

Wish him all the great things, success and  happiness in life..  Love U " Rahul" Muaahh...:-)

A Sweet Friend..

A sweet friend of mine, who’s special to me

He was just a stranger, few days back.

A stranger who randomly came into mah life

And from that moment, I feel the change.

He said “hello” and I responded with a smile

We talk to each other and share our thoughts.

He is very sweet, friendly, affectionate and calm

And he sometimes gets rude but thats the real him

He shares the secret moments of his life

And I do mine, knowing each other better.

He knows so much about me and sometimes more than me

And I am still trying to understand him.

He sometimes say that we are same in some ways

And the next moment he makes me feel indifferent

He is so lively, joyful, carefree and crazy

That I forget all mah pain whenever with him.

He never shows how sentimental and emotional he is

And thinks I don’t understand that he too is hurt sometimes

He has been strong enough in dealing with life

And sometimes cries with all the pain he has .

He has seen the relations coming n going in his life

And now he wants to be free  from all this bondings.

He said me once, he has some dreams to bring them into reality

He has a reason to live for others n give to others.

He is so simple and truthful that I got to believe him

Once that I know him, I can’t afford to let him go

N did I tell u, he has got the Cute Smile, one can go crazy for.

The Destiny..

I met a guy, few months ago on the subway

Fair complexion, sharp features and a cute smile

He just looked at me with the spark in his eyes

There were  so many questions lying there

May be he wanted to say something

But then this moment just ended there

He passed by me and me by him , unspoken.

This unspoken encounter made me feel something

Sum feeling which is unexpressed, undefined

What was that he wanted to say at that moment

Was their some connection between us that I felt

Was it a planned encounter by someone

Or just a random moment in mah life

A moment for life to remember or to leave it there.

One day again he was there in front of me

With that cute smile and that sparkling eyes

I smiled back coz may be I felt the same as he did

It happened again as earlier and  no one spoke

But  our eyes said it all, all the unanswered questions

All that  unexpressed feeling and the emotions we had

Then we spoke for the first time to each other.

And now  we share the happiness of being together

He holds mah hand and  I feel the touch of  his love

He kisses me and  I feel so lucky to be his gal

I see a dream with him and he is the  world to me

Now I know it was all planned to bring us together

To make  two of us from strangers to the loved ones
Its the Destiny  to bring this beautiful relation in mah life.. 

Being SILENT..

I spoke sumtimes to express myself

 Sumtimes I did  to impress  others

I spoke sumtimes to share  mah happiness

Sumtimes I did  to show the sadness

I spoke sumtimes  to put mah views

Sumtimes I did  just to support you

Sumtimes  you understood what i said

And  sumtimes it was just worthless 

Sumtimes  mah talks made logic to you

And  sumtimes it was all  just baseless

Sumtimes  you felt the pain in mah words

And sumthimes it appeared  all fake to you

And now that I have spoken much to you

All that meaningful  n meaningless things

I realized sumtimes silence is better than  speech

Bcoz  sumtimes  sumthings are better left unsaid

So I like to be Silent, Silent on everything around me

N  now I  love  “Being Silent”..

Friendship.. A Blessed Relation

U have been a part of my life since I know you..

U always there in my happiness and sadness..

U always give me a hug when i am in need..

U always know the reason behind my tears..

U always hold my hand when i walk alone..

U always have a fight with me for silly things..

U always understand my immature behavior..

U always smile on my weird desires..

U always know when i am lying to you..

U know me all and sometimes more than me..

U are the priceless gift which I can't afford to lose..

Thank God, I am blessed with such a gift..

Friendship.. A  Blessed  Relation..